A letter to the congregation from our president, Donna Thalblum



A letter to the congregation from our president,  Donna Thalblum

Dear Friends,
Every so often, an event occurs in our lives that has the power to transform who we are and what we do. Sometimes, it is a life-cycle event – birth, graduation, wedding, even death. Sometimes, it is a life event – new job, relocation, or new home.

We write today to share such an event. Our Congregation’s Board of Trustees has approved a “Final Master Plan” for our building’s renovation.

As we have shared with you over the last 18 month, we asked a Building Renovation Task Force (BRTF), chaired by Mary Davidson and Ira Stolzer, to determine the needs for our community for the coming years. They worked with Rogers Krajnak Architects to complete a building analysis (understanding the “health” of our physical structure), a program analysis (understanding the current and future programming needs of the congregation), and a design recommendation to carry us into the future.

As you may remember, our current facility was never meant to be a full-service building. It was meant simply to be a school. For the last 14 years, we have been using it beyond its capabilities and we are immensely grateful to our professional staff for making it seem so easy to do so. In truth, it has not been. We have put stress and strains on our building and it is showing its wear. At the same time, we knew that three important elements needed to be addressed for our congregation – increasing security, building community, and enhancing tefillah (prayer). Each needed added dimensions in order to fulfill our core purpose: to nurture Jewish meaning, connection, and continuity.

This past week, we took the historic step of voting to accept a design recommendation offered by the BRTF. In our congregation’s 146-year history, such a vote has been passed – perhaps – 6 times. And as it has each time in the past, such a vote propels B’nai Jehudah along a journey of hope and excitement. And change.
As we begin the next phase of the work – putting together a Building Task Force and a Capital Campaign to fund our dreams – we ask for your patience. At the beginning of our work we committed to take things one step at a time. That is what we have done. Now, we approach the next phase. That will include many more details that we will share as our process unfolds.

Our next step is to share with you the design and its transformational impact on who we are and what we do. We invite you to join us on Shabbat afternoon, January 21, 4-6 pm. We will offer a “seudat shelisheit” (literally, “a third meal”). In our tradition, it is a way to extend the spirituality and communal aspects of Shabbat – two of our goals for this renovation. We will have some light refreshments, some communal singing, a little Torah teaching, and…of course…an opportunity to view the approved design and hear what we hope will happen within our re-imagined space. For those unable to be with us that afternoon, we will record the session and have it available via our website.
For now, we want to say thank you to the BRTF. It’s members included Lisa Brower, Bill Carr, Amanda Morgan King, Tim Iseman, Ken Sigman, Donna Thalblum, and Gary Weinberg. Their work has placed us on this path of our journey. It will now be our privilege to continue the journey and the work. We know such a decision carries with it many questions. We are sensitive to the challenges of change. We promise to be in touch on a regular basis, answering questions as we have answers and updating everyone with our progress as we move forward.

We look forward to celebrating Shabbat afternoon with you on January 21 and sharing our vision for our future.

Donna Thalblum, 









B’nai Jehudah

As we find ourselves in the darkest days of winter, what could be more welcoming than the lights of the chanukiah (Chanukah menorah)? We, at B’nai Jehudah, are ready to celebrate the Festival of Lights! Our congregation will celebrate in two ways this year – one virtual and one real.

Virtual: Each morning before the next candle is lit, we will post on our Facebook page something that one of our staff wishes to share. It may be a story, a video, a recipe, a teaching. We hope you will enjoy/learn/grow and feel free to “like” it, to share it. It is our small Chanukah gift to the community.

The first posting will be FRIDAY morning, December 23, in anticipation of lighting the first candle on SATURDAY evening, December 24. Because we do not post on Shabbat, this first posting will be a day early. Look for the second post on Sunday morning, December 25 and each morning thereafter.)

Real: What’s Chanukah without B’nai Jehudah’s annual 180 Menorah Celebration? This year it will be on Erev Shabbat, Friday, December 30. We will light seven candles. With 180 menorahs, that means 1440 candles will light up our Social Hall. Because of our large service, there is NO Bisseleh Nosh that night. Our service starts PROMPTLY at 6:00 pm. Don’t be late because we will light our chanukiot within the first 5 minutes of our service. And we want everyone to be there. We want everyone to bring one, two – as many as they have – Chanukah menorahs to light up our Chanukah celebration!

After a fun service filled with Chanukah and Shabbat music, we will enjoy our traditional brisket and latke dinner.

Reservations and details for the dinner can be found by


See you on Friday, December 30,

for our annual Shabbat Chanukah service.

P.S. We will send out a special Chanukah email to everyone on Friday afternoon…just to say: Happy Chanukah! Look for it. There will be a surprise or two inside.



Friday, December 23

5:30 pm – Bisseleh Nosh

6:00 pm – Erev Shabbat Service
Rabbi Nemitoff will speak

Saturday, December 24

10:30 am – Shabbat Morning Service
Gary Boxer will teach

Chanukah begins at sunset


Monday, December 26


 9:15 am – Daily Minyan

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